I have learned that when sadness comes to visit me, all I can do is say “I see you.” I spend some time with it, get up, and say goodbye. I don’t push it away. I own it. And because I own it, I let it go.
(via soraryuuzaki)
i feel so !!!! disconnected !!!! from my friends, family, art and self. how do i ground myself and feel like im me again. i feel like a piece of dust floating around
(via no-n-sens)
I’m so afraid of losing something I love that I refuse to love anything.
Maybe Fate made a beautiful mistake between us.
How to Change from being a Toxic Person
Even if you hurt other people in the past, or been the kind of person that you really don’t respect, you can always make the decision to change. The tips below might be helpful for this.
1. Look for the good in the people that you meet, and try to empathise, and understand others’ viewpoints.
2. Remind yourself of this: “That it’s not all about you” … and the feelings and the wishes of others matter too.
3. Be polite; try saying “thank you”; and don’t take people for granted. What they did took thought and effort, and it’s nice to be acknowledged.
4. Think before you speak. This will save a lot of grief. For once those words are spoken, they cannot be taken back. They may never be forgotten, and can haunt you later on.
5. Check your tone of voice and the words you choose to use. These can cause misunderstandings, or create a bad impression.
6. Don’t gossip about others; look for things to praise instead.
7. Don’t take the bait and be pulled into arguments. Just let the comment go. You don’t need to rise to that.
8. Make the effort to be kind, and offer others your support. And do something that’s special, and which demonstrates some thought.
I didn’t know my heart could withstand such storms until you. So this time, either take me or destroy me entirely. Anything less than such extremes wouldn’t do me justice. For at least then we would have a label, even if it is tragedy
please dont hurt yourself because someone left you. even if they all leave, the person you need the most is yourself. please be kind to yourself. the good people you want in your life will come later.
Sometimes, I’m scared
To wake up the next day
And feel happiness
Just fade away
Other times, I hope
To stay asleep forever
Because I’ve convinced myself
That it could never get better
